An American Expat's Perspective: Caring for the US from 10,000km Away

Having resided in the UAE for over a decade, I've observed three US presidential elections and numerous policy decisions from Abu Dhabi since my departure in 2014. Despite the 10,000km distance, the United States remains deeply important to me, as my family and friends still live in Massachusetts. However, living abroad has also provided a degree of insulation from the direct consequences of these events, lessening the personal impact I once felt.

Following this year's US midterms from a newsroom, with international news channels on screen, highlights this familiar dichotomy. I recognize the significant stakes involved, even as I track the results from a country where my daily life will likely remain unchanged. The memory of the shock following Donald Trump's 2016 presidential election victory, a sentiment shared by many colleagues, is still vivid. Joe Biden's election in 2020 brought hope, though his presidency ultimately did not meet those initial expectations. By 2024, I found it challenging to muster the same enthusiasm, feeling neither candidate was the ideal choice.

Now, I ponder the extent of change anticipated over the next two years. While it's premature to know, the possibility of a significant shift in congressional control often signals a public desire for change. Even from afar, it's difficult not to be drawn into that potential and excitement. My perspective on American politics has been reshaped by living abroad. Following international coverage has illuminated the global impact of US decisions. Conversations within the UAE offer viewpoints I might not have encountered had I remained in Massachusetts. This has also heightened my awareness of how familiar narratives can influence perceptions, particularly among those unfamiliar with a place. I recognize this from my own prior understanding of the Middle East, which was similarly shaped before my move.

I strive to apply this same awareness to the US, understanding that the country encompasses more than the political divisions frequently portrayed on television and social media. Yet, I sometimes find myself in the peculiar position of explaining this, suggesting that "not all of America is like that." A friend recently likened following US politics to a soap opera, and when asked about his own country's politics, he quipped it was "too close to home." This might explain his greater familiarity with the American political landscape than mine. I can, however, understand the appeal, given the emotional rollercoaster that accompanies election results.

The Democratic Party's regaining control of the Senate and the House of Representatives in the 2026 midterm elections was a significant event. Whether a state flips, a close race is decided, or a historic milestone is achieved, I find myself constantly refreshing Google and various websites for the latest updates. Excitement can swiftly transform into disappointment, and vice versa, within a single morning. Although I can vote from Abu Dhabi, I sometimes wish I could do more, especially knowing that loved ones will bear the consequences of those votes. I suspect many expats share this sentiment. Despite the distance and years away, I continue to care about America's future and hope for what lies ahead.