A Legacy of Love: How Two Generations of Emirati-German Marriages Bridged Cultures

When Khalifa Al Abri travelled to Germany as a young Emirati student nearly four decades ago, signing up for language lessons unexpectedly changed the course of his life. In early 1987, his teacher, Karin, took him through private sessions in the German language. “The chemistry between us was very strong,” he recalled. He was 26 and she was 27. Now in their 60s, the couple have built a family that includes two sons, a daughter, and grandchildren who embody both sides of their Emirati-German heritage.

This cross-cultural love story is mirrored in the next generation. Their son Saif, 33, married Anna Benz, 34, after meeting her at a friend's party in Germany. “It was like something from a film – love at first sight,” said Mr Saif. The family's journey highlights personal ties that run parallel to official diplomatic relations between the UAE and Germany, which stretch back more than five decades.

The family recently gathered at the German International School Abu Dhabi as Saif and Anna's six-year-old daughter, Safiya, began Grade 1, while younger sister Amira, four, looked on. Having arrived in Abu Dhabi in August, it is the first time the young family has lived together in the UAE. Growing up, Mr Saif split his life between both countries, spending his school years in Germany before returning to the UAE for Grade 11 and later completing National Service.

Reflecting on his time abroad, Mr Al Abri noted that studying in Germany instilled values of order, discipline, and respect for time and others. He emphasized the importance of representing the UAE respectfully while living overseas. Meanwhile, Ms Karin noted that differing nationalities and religions never posed a serious obstacle, with the family harmoniously celebrating Ramadan and Eid alongside Easter and Christmas. Ultimately, the Al Abri family's journey stands as a personal testament to a nearly 40-year bond uniting two cultures, two languages, and two distinct sets of traditions.